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These are some of my favorite quotations that I use in my workshops. They beautifully illustrate much of the philosophy of my golf and life. I hope you find them as meaningful as I do.

Purpose

"The only true happiness comes from squandering ourselves for a purpose."
- John Mason Brown

"Success, like happiness, cannot be pursued, it must ensue. And it only does so as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself."
- Victor Frankl

“He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how.” - Nietzsche

"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony."
- Mahatma Gandhi

Change and Commitment

"It is to my advantage to make a commitment and keep it, because it protects me from making reckless decisions when I am discouraged." - Bill Riedler

"One reason we have resistance to change is that we focus on what we have to give up rather than on what we have to gain." - Ken Blanchard

"To go forward, you have to leave something behind."
- Steve Jobs

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world."
- Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi

"Everybody thinks of changing humanity and nobody thinks of changing himself."
- Leo Tolstoy

Self-Criticism and Perfection

"Perfectionism is a mental straight jacket." - Alan Loy McGinnis

"Perfectionism is slow death." - Hugh Prather

"If you make every game a life’s or death proposition you’re going to have problems. For one thing, you’ll be dead a lot!" - Dean Smith

"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission." - Eleanor Roosevelt

"Appreciate yourself for who you are instead of berating yourself for who you are not."
- Melissa Whitmire

"When there is judgment, there is no room for love." - Mother Teresa

"Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do."
- John Wooden

Thought and Self Fulfilling Prophecies

"We become what we think about." - Earl Nightingale

"One meets his destiny often in the road he takes to avoid it." - French Proverb

"We attract what we fear!" - Anonymous

"All that a man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is the direct result of his own thoughts." - James Allen

"Focus or vision is the magic wand of creating your heart’s desire." - Sonja Choquette

"Dream lofty dreams and as you dream, so shall you become… Dreams are the seedlings of reality." - James Allen

"Act as though it were impossible to fail." - Dorothea Brand

"Never doubt, there comes a moment when you begin to believe that virtually anything is possible, that nothing is too good to be true." - Anonymous

On Taking Action

"Try, there is no try. Only do or do not do." - Yoda

"One hundred percent of the shots you don't take don't go in." - Wayne Gretzky

"A goal not committed to paper is no goal at all." - Jeff Herring

"If you are lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you have to find the courage to live it." - John Irving

"It does not matter how slowly you go, as long as you do not stop." - Confucius

"Plodding wins the race." - Aesop

"Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs." - Henry Ford

"Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire!"
- Reggie Leach

"The race is not always to the swift, but to those that keep on running." - Anonymous

Enjoying the Journey

"After climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb."
- Nelson Mandela

"There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval." - George Santayana

"We use the word IF to keep ourselves from being responsible for taking charge of our own happiness in the present moment." - Melissa Whitmire

"We don’t get 100% satisfaction from the moment because we are focused on the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow….forgetting that WE are the rainbow!" - Traci Riedler

"It is only possible to live happily ever after on a day-to-day basis."
- Margaret Bonnano

"Take success, rub it all over your body and then roll in it." - Chuck Hogan

"When we dwell on what was, we are robbed of what is, and lose what can be."
- M. Whitmire

Miscellaneous

"What I fear most about stress is not that it kills, but that it prevents one from savoring life."
- Jean-Louis Seven-Schreiber

"He that is good with a hammer tends to think everything is a nail." - Abraham Maslow

"Let no one come to you without leaving better and happier." - Mother Teresa

"Golf is the most overtaught and least learned human behavior. If they taught sex the way they taught golf, the race would have died out years ago." - Jim Murray

"Laughter is Inner Jogging." - Norman Cousins

"The Door to Happiness Opens Outward." - Unknown

"Three things in human life are important: The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind." - Henry James

 


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